One of the definitions of adversity is as follows: a state of hardship or difficulty; misfortune; harsh conditions or hard times. Just about everyone has faced a form of adversity at some point or another in their lives. However, with the right frame of mind, even the worst conditions and obstacles can be overcome. People do it every day and so can you.
The Only Opinion That Matters Is Yours
It is a shame to know that there are individuals that seem to thrive on the failure of others. Even more disturbing are those that do and say things to purposely bring other people down. The best way to defeat this negative situation is to realize that no matter what criticism you may receive from others, in the end it is your decision as to what you want to do with your life and the steps you want to take in order to be successful. In most cases, naysayers are all talk and no substance. Words do hurt but they don’t have to influence your actions. Stick to your guns and follow the agenda you have set for yourself. With time and practice, the negative opinions will fall on deaf ears.
Become Your Own Cheerleader
Having the love and support of friends, family members and other loved ones is a wonderfully motivating factor to help you pursue your goals in life. However, there is a love that is even greater…and that is love of self. Boost yourself by being your biggest fan. Constantly remind yourself that you are worthy of the successes that come your way. Don’t be afraid to look in the mirror and love what you see staring back at you. When you believe in yourself, your confidence level will go through the roof and give you the drive needed to go for what you want.
Use Adversity to Your Advantage
Why let adversity bring you down when you can use it to further your cause? Many people that have faced hardships in life allow it to consume them and eventually it becomes their excuse for not succeeding in life. However, with the right thinking and attitude you can credit adversity as one of the main reasons why you are the person you’ve become today. There is nothing more inspiring than hearing about how an individual used a difficult childhood, traumatic experience or major setback to push them even harder towards the goals they knew were within their right to achieve.
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